I just want to let people know that things are not as clean cut and set in astrology as it is written sometimes because things that are presented as the only possible, likely truth will make people will fear astrology and the people around them if they look into isolated aspects from small asteroids and planets alike. Synastry: Sun square Pluto, sun conjunct Amor, sun conjunct psyche, Pluto conjunct moon, Venus square Pluto, (they have Venus square Pluto)natal also, mars sextile Venus, Mars conjunct Sappho and trine Uranus (they have mars square Uranus natal mars) tine Jupiter, Venus conjunct Neptune and sun conjunct Venus and Eros square Pluto, Eros conjunct kaali, Venus conjunct kaali all opposite Nessus!! YES. I think the Nessus/Deja relationship in synastry is a re-play of childhood abuse. . The charts tell all. And how did you arrive at the conclusion that Nessus and Dejanira are indicative of abuse? The asteroid Eros plays a role in sexual attraction as well. Still, even without the conjunction, I have Nessus in the 1st house, which would make me abusive, according to these theories, and I dont fit. Fortuna Conjunct the Vertex. and DW : womans Nessus (13 Gemini) opposite mans Juno ( 12 Sag). Thanks :), If you want to ask me a simpler question, I am game! Yes, this is all very true but the charts exist outside of time, too. Talk about deep dark sexual desiresTremendous sexual need to control. I wasnt abused as a child in any way. They often indicate a desire to sexually conquer/arouse one another. The Five Darkest, Sexual Aspects in Synastry There is attraction based on dark forces like rage, pain and abuse. It wasn't until he began to withhold sex from me that I finally crumbled. For teaching purposes, one must break things down, so it may seem like it is contrary but it is really not, imo, Sandy. What synastry aspects make someone fall in love They have transcended Nessus conj Dejanira, which is a new situation for me to see. He may abuse her and it would be seen publicly. There are many, many possibilities in astrology, even infinite if Im speaking on the complexity of each persons chart. Always leaving them in a fog of confusion, along with lies, victim playing and guilt trips. Lilith person helps Ceres person find their power and authenticity. Posts: 376From: Western Massachusetts, USRegistered: May 2009. What does that mean? For that reason, I am not for everyone and know this but I seem to be appreciated by people who think like I do. Crow Symbolism: Spiritual Meaning Of The Crow, 6 Effective Studying Spells For Exams, Class, & Enhanced Focus, Winter Solstice & Yule: Rituals, Traditions, And Ways To Celebrate. eros synastry attraction - Astrology Anonymous Ceres in Synastry, Signs, Houses, Retrograde - Astrology Lol just noticed what you wrote at the end about Mars/Uranus, sorry! Im not meaning to argue if it sounds like it, its just damaging for ignorant people to come find posts saying that bad asteroids are always going to play out no matter what they do because that leads them to believe that everything in astrology is linear and has only a small set of possibilities that people cannot escape. Do we exile her from consciousness or build her a sanctuary for potent, creative expression? With any Chiron aspect to the other persons Juno, there was a wound created through marriage in a past life. 3 degrees is wide but this is one of the hardest aspects in the whole chart, so please be vigilant, as I know you will be! Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. I have BML in my 1st house in Scorpio along with Venus and Saturn All are in conjunction with BML. All of astrology is neutral. Thank you, Kay <3 Again, telling people to get out of or stay out of relationships with an aspect that you in particular think will cause them harm is not healing in any aspect of the word. Both of them are loaded with sexual power, so their interaction is often explosive. Lastly, with me having moon conjunct neptune in my natal and venus in my 12th house, does that make me similar to venus in pisces xxx I ask because I attract men with mars in pisces and men who have pisces as a descendant/7th house , Hi Ami, It is desire, it is passion and love. Does that fit and I applaud your willingness to face yourself. I suppose I should add that. Thank you Ivs. Could you specify what you mean by abuse (subtle, verbal, violent etc.?)? These parts of you would flow well i.e may not play out in actual asbuse but would still be issues you both would deal with i.e abuse/victimhood imo I have not seen the trine in actual charts, dean. Do you think I need to worry about the Nessus/BML conjunction or about abusing the poor wounded birds I keep looking for? Mars is the planet of passion, desire and sexual drive and Eros is the physical act of sex Re: Lilith conjunct . When you say one which you contemplate, do you mean that the person is aware of the abuse tendency and tries to deal with it? Why dont you come and put the chart up on my Forum? Hey there! Hi Ami. Thats like saying everyone with their own natal mars square pluto aspect makes them destined to be molested. This would be once in a lifetime kind of intense and tender. Thanks for your posts Ami. Positive aspects speak to a generally happy marriage, but there is still karma to be worked out now. Not sure which one id prefer. Priapus - Lilith's Male Counterpart - Mystic Medusa Astrology I am curious about the dejanira/nessus aspects. Eros Synastry: The Nodes and Major Angles of Your Chart (Conjunctions If someone does not want to accept the truth, that is their choice, but I, personally, will not do their chart. with Dejanira conjunct his natal Sun My guess is that it would be an obsessive relationship where both would try to hurt each other? My ex has Scorpio Pluto conjunct my scorpio moon, and I have Sagittarius pluto conjunct his sagittarius moon. Would you say that a double whammy Nessus OPPOSITE Juno is something dangerous too ? I was sexually abused in my home by a family member. Eros Conjunct the Midheaven: This synastry aspect will be quite powerful for both parties since it will impact the way that the world views them. Another asteroid that is dark is Dejanira. So the theory doesnt check out. Lilith cops the craziest projections - that she could cause miscarriages or tried to wreck men's marriages via 'erotic nightmares' and so on. However, it's recommended to do an individual birthchart analysis before analyzing the Synastry to see the personal needs and potential for maintaining a healthy relationship. I am sorry! Is there a good part to Nessus/deja conjunct? I am looking to add 5 more aspects and would love your opinions! They are deceiving themselves, would be a better way to say it. I have my DEJA conjuncion JUNO in my house 6 Nonetheless, your interpretation of dejanira and nessus is intriguing. Their capacity for intimacy and shared desire to melt into the fires of transformation is nothing short of total risk, which each are compelled to take- no questions asked. I wouldnt think my mars/Pluto semisextile is as strong though it can do damage. as well as to the signs and houses. As I see more pieces, I think my awareness shifts, and I do feel like that makes a difference. To me, it always is. , Not a sag actually, but a virgo with tons of leo in her chart, lol. I am the nessus person and I admit to having some devious tendencies towards anyone with neptune in that position. Where did you get these theories from? Lilith desires sacred sex above all things. The wonderful thing about this aspect, especially with the conjunction is that love is brought into the lives of both, even if . I don't need anything from you, except to serve you. Coming from a standpoint of being an archaeologist, we can interpret and theorize things ourselves all we want, but an archaeologist telling a crowd of people that their own interpretation of the past is the TRUTH would not only be incredibly wrong, but it would also be detrimental to people that no nothing about interpreting and analyzing archaeological sites, therefore they would take that persons word even though it is not truth. Are they married, Lo. Eros in synastry Tell me, what is it like? Would an eighth house overlay make these destructive or strengthen ? I think you are insightful, do not get me wrong, but being fatalistic is not the truth, and me saying that being fatalistic is wrong to do and is detrimental to people that dont know how complex astrology is, does not mean that I am not accepting the truth. BUT my dejanira is conjunct with his sun by one degree and my dejanira is also in the same degree as my AC What does that mean? Theyre both devoted and kind people and Ive known her since we were teens. I meant in synastry her saturn conjuct his deja 1 degree, Thats ok. Aww She may ride his case for being a victim like say, get over it etc etc, Pingback: Dark sexual relationship synastry top 5 | Signing. I am prone to being attacked in this way. Asteroids touching asteroids are not as powerful as asteroids touching persona; points on the chart such as the ASC, Moon, Sun, Venus etc. The Fortuna would, likely, bring good fortune to the vertex person, likely in the arena of money. The Top 5 Past Life Marriage Indicators In the Birth Chart: Karmic Please please do Nessus conjunct Lilith in synastry?? Your posts are starting to scare me now Ami. Lilith Conjunct Venus Synastry - Transformative - Home - Access New Age My dejanira is in opposition to his sun and without any other aspects. Considering the sexual aspect of it all, though, I'm betting the pay off was satisfying at least, haha. It makes my day , What conjuncts the DSC, we disown and find in the partner. Do you think the way it plays out ties into whatever our attitudes toward Eros/Lilith themes (erotic transformation, primal urges, etc) were to begin with? These aspects or connections have a "mean't to be" feel to them, it's a potent place to look at in synastry. Come and post the charts. I would have to see the rest of the chart to tell more though, my Friend. in case his vertex in my moon and ascendant *. 3. What about nessus exactly conjunct BML in synastry the man is nessus (9h), Wow Is there a super attraction that feels so strong that it will blow you off your feet? I could not agree more with this. You can say you did it and you can help the next person who comes along. Many people say they have overcome things but I watch their actions and see they are lying. There is no superficial way to get to know Lilith through the experience of the erotic. and should I post the picture of the chart (I usually get it from astro.com)? We can still find a lot of info with no time of birth. First of all Lilith is for . 4. Mars/Pluto is more primal in a pure sexual way than Moon/Pluto which is more emotional and much more emotionally bonded. Moon conjunct Pluto is the strongest of the Moon/Pluto aspects because the conjunction trumps any other aspect in strength. This can indicate marriage, but it can also indicate a long-term romantic or sexual relationship. Lilith desires sacred sex above all things. IF the chart does not seem right, then I think the time of birth is off. Nessus conj the NN in synastry would make me RUN and fast lol. That would be my guess. I am not mad, I am correcting you for instilling fear in people with your claim to truth. A Lilith conjunct Mars synastry creates an intense hot affair that can lead to abuse of power and hostility, and this couple must learn to take care of each other before passion consumes their lives. Ive never seen the Descendant explained so clearly or succinctly before. All this is square my Moon. Sorry if its too much info xx, Ps, sorry! We are mesmerized, enchanted, and even obsessed with this person. Eros: Synastry Aspects . His Nessus makes no major aspect to my planets, except a 3 orb trine to my Mercury and North Node, and Vertex..could this mean well step on each others toes when it comes to reaching our goals? It can ruin possible healthy relationships. It is disrespect to Astrology which I love and respect. Eros is also prominent in their synastry. Does it matter if he doesnt have pluto in aspect to my venus (mine is 19 Libra)? or you consider just the closer orbit? Maybe, maybe not. I mean, a persons life is complicated. Well, we have a Sun (me) trine Pluto and a Pluto (me) conjunct his sun, Thank you so much for the reply and sorry for the late reply, Ive just seen it xx My moon is in Sagittarius and his in cancer, so that always worries me , He has pluto at 27 Virgo with my sun at 11 Virgo. Your email address will not be published. That is why it feels so life and death. The lilith person knows exactly how they effect the ic and can really play with them over time. Eros and Venus in a synastry chart! Conjunction - YouTube Keep in mind that conjunctions are the most important, but other aspects can occasionally speak to marriage. My Sun and Mercury sandwich this conjunction by four and three degrees. Eros wants intense encounters that lead to lasting transformation. Nessus is the abusers asteroid. You don't need to BELIEVE in Jesus to come here and/or to contact me. It is sad! Hi Ami, Ive been quietly enjoying your site for years now and am finally reaching out as Im intrigued by your work on nessus/deja and recently entered into a relationship with someone (not romantic) who I discovered has nessus and mars conj my nn exact. As one of the four largest asteroids (along with Vesta, Pallas, and Juno), Ceres is usually analyzed in the birth chart. I'm not typically the "make him suffer" type, but holy wow did it all come rushing out with him. Im 30 with a mother that is 32 years older than myself and have never experienced any abuse, and Ive been alive and around my mother long enough to experience it. My jupiter conjunct his sun and venus. Lilith-Mars Aspects in Synastry (conjunction, sextile, trine, opposition, square) Lilith-Mars aspects are all about clash of desires. His makes two major squares to her inner planets. I am not surprised this happened to you. Even with a trine this 8th house effect enhances both the good and the bad ? Pluto trine Venus, Venus quincunx Pluto This vertex conjunction shows up again like in my previous relationship. Eros isnt making any connections to either Dejanira or Nessus though. . Black Moon Lilith in Synastry - Sasstrology.com To me, this is always a fundamental place to start. The Nessus person brings abuse to the ASC/DSC person. You are not an astrology god that holds the key to the entire truth. Im not accepting you scaring people into running from possible happy, fulfilling relationships over one aspect that none of us even know how it can manifest in millions of ways. Thank you, It would simply be different. I found your site a short time ago and learned a lot, very descriptive in the analysis, I love it! I read some things. What conjuncts your Aura? We need to look at the whole chart to see the whole story. Thats not the truth. But interested to see how things unfold. Lets see. Am I right? I have some extreme aspects and I shudder to think how they would be expressed had I not had saturn at the top of my chart who keeps things in check via a grand trine involving some big bad planets. It is not pretty at all. I would have to consider the scenarios more. I have no vested interest in any asteroid or any placement being any way other than my being able to help people. TEA & ROSEMARY LLC. I hope I can do this in my articles. The chart shows the TRUTH. I write the truth not to placate people but because the truth is the only thing that heals. Yes, it would. Thank you for this information! The 12th house is all about past life astrology, so the planets can always be applied to past lives as well as the current life. the reason this is the case is that Mars is sexual drive( all drives actually). I still talk to him to this day and I honestly will never forget how magnetic this relationship was. It would have ruined my relationship with my mother because I would have feared her even though she showed no signs of abuse. The chart allows one to see oneself. Thats weird. If you see Nessus in synastry, make sure you know which side of the fence he is on. 12 degrees is WAY too much to be conj the ASC, my Friend. Things DO offset things but one must look at everything to see a final answer which is my goal when doing charts.I am not trying to sell myself here, just trying to show that your question is too deep for a quick answer, my Friend. Yes, astrology charts do show the truth of ones life, but the issue is that YOUR opinions do not equate the truth. I have my dejanira conjuct by one degree with my AC line. Thank you F for being here and for taking the time to comment.What do you mean exactly? Welcome, Ariel and great questions. OkI really cant comment on the sign, per se. We have moons in conjunction in gemini; His venus and mars are in conjunction with my venus in Aquarius. I would say no, but I am not the last word in anything. There was some sort of karma created, whether the relationship was painful or whether one person abandoned it. Groom conjunct the Vertex. What about a mars 8th house overlay also trining pluto? We also have mars opposite pluto (Im pluto) in synastry. Eros is a spicy little asteroid who generates excitement in relationship astrology. This is based on experience and charts, as are all my theories. Further, there is such a thing such as free will. If you have a dominant Dejanira, you will be a victim. It is not as intense as the conjunction but very intense, nonetheless. What does that mean? I am honored to have you as a valued member of my website family , Ivs, why dont you come put your chart in my Personal Readings Forum. My Dejanira is square his venus (-0a) and conjunct his vertex (0s). Eros in Synastry - Philosophy & Astrology The Moon person feels comforted by the Sun person's energy and the Sun person feels like they can be vulnerable with the Moon person. Do these asteroids have to be conjunct planets or square each other to be dangerous? Is there any way this could play out in a positive manner or should I watch my back? I am Sag with rising capricorn and he is Capricorn w/rising Sag. What I've read about Lilith makes it seem to me that she's sort of like the Feminine's Pluto with lots of primal sexual urges thrown in, so I'm sure she rooted herself comfortably into your already heavily Plutonic relationships. This really highlights this magnetic quality to this conjunction and creates a situation where each individual holds the . I know it is not funny but the charts will play out, in my experience, anyway. Thank you for your words. I read all these comments and yes they are interesting. We do not have enough information on every aspect, and never will because again, no interpretation is set in stone to be able to tell someone that something is most certainly going to happen. I dont know too much about asteroids and wonder if the intense attraction I am feeling will fizzle as quickly as it came about or if it lasting. It "wakes up those areas inside of us and causes us to express them sexually, free from the restrictions of reality. The story of Eros and Psyche is one of deep and transformative love, but their union was not devoid of hardship. If you see Moon oppose or square Pluto, dont play with the person. Drawing that authoritarian feminine energy into the already present power themes must have been really overwhelming, just flooding in from every corner. However, if the time is right, for sure, I would trust the chart over a personal account. Sun Conjunct Lilith Meaning | Ryan Hart I've never had a more natural and effortless sexual connection to someone in my life, and it blinded me to a lot of things. His dejanira is in opposition to his vertex. Asteroids and aspects do not control people. His Nessus conjunct her midheaven. Its not a square but there isnt much info out there on the conjunction. But I did find out that her Amor conjuncts their Dejanira-Nessus conjunction, so her Dejanira is conjunct her Amor. As you know, or can find from my directory, Eros and Psyche are my favorite asteroids. I was shocked to see it in this couples charts. We are not discussing potential long-term compatibility between the sexes, not the love match-rather, signs of initial sexual attraction and knee-jerk reactions between two people. I have this kinky fantasy specifically for him putting a really big needle into me as part of a medical procedure but this isnt my kink or fetish. Lilith and Ceres conjunct in the synastry chart Your rebellious free spirit and nurturing sides are enmeshed. It gives no leg room, and its fearful to people. Thank you a bunch for being so sweet Free~ I do agree that Ami is quite insightful, however I would like to chime in and say that I do not make every aspect positive I make every aspect neutral because the stars and planets are not going to tell you something is bad or make something bad. In other words, if a mans Nessus conjuncts your ASC, he will abuse you, in my opinion. I would say that this relationship would be INTENSE but in a beautiful way.Please, tell me about it! Wow, Pluto conj the DSC may be looking for partners who have strong primal power and you may not have accessed your own. The issue is that me disagreeing with you being fatalistic (because what you say is not what always happens, not even 60% of the time because I have nessus/dejanira aspects with most people that are close to me, and I have never been abused or attacked in any of those relationships) does not mean that Im not accepting the truth. PS I checked the synastry of a man I know for sure was abused by his own father physically and emotionally, throughout his childhood, and this mans Nessus is conjunct his fathers Sun. Opposition AC / Moon and trigone mars and saturne. Sun and Lilith aspects in the Synastry Chart: How do you - 12andus eros conjunct sun in synastry - ProBoards 9. What significance would you place on someones Juno conjunct my vertex, south node as well as very-widely conjunct my sun (same sign). Thank you, Amiann. Im pluto and he is the moon. we also have Eros (his) conjunct my Lilith and Pluto (mine) conjunct his Venus. Because of where my Moon is at 2 56 Scorpio conjunct Pluto at 4 36 Scorpio in the 8th house the men around my age (Im 35);tend to have their Pluto conjunct my Moon/Pluto In my current relationship my boyfriend has Mars/Pluto conjunct my Moon/Pluto. How about choose one aspect and I will try to help, T. Not to be rude, but this is incredibly fatalistic. Pluto conjunct Sun synastry indicates a powerful and transformative relationship. We have no moon aspects will this help? What use is reams of esoteric info for real life applications. They have a very strong sense of "us against the world," and they will fight to protect the boundaries of their relationship at all costs. I guess I was just worried in general, just in case :P. how about deja conjuct saturn 1 degree. Sorry if this came off mean, I just dont want people to get scared over having one aspect when astrological interpretations are not set in stone. This is not a dark aspect, either. Think sitting next to a roaring fire. Any comments will help. It's been suggested that an understanding of someone's natal Eros gives you the keys to unlock their erotic desires. In our synastry chart we have moon trine pluto and mars square pluto. You may be fated to marry. Eros: Essential Sexual Contact or Icing on the Cake? Keep an eye on anyone who is near her. It is very, very powerful. The first would be Nessus. I was thinking that maybe one of the lesser factors could be moon/mars contacts?
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