Kim Mills: You know the old saying, never put off until tomorrow what you can do the day after tomorrow? So one of the projects I want to look at, I know there was this type of work that was done with perfectionism showing that perfectionism is increasing over time. So if we tell people to recall a time that they're procrastinating and then give them this sort of script that re-frames that experience in a self-compassionate manner, basically You're not the first person to procrastinate, nor will you be the last. Sometimes its just people have more things that they want to do and theyre having trouble settling on one. And it sounds counterintuitive because collectively we like to think about productivity and just crack the whip and get going. So if you're a student and you're procrastinating on your academic work, then it's likely you're not going to do as well performance-wise. So these mainly are personal strategies. Its been a popular topic. Mills: Well, that's some good advice for you procrastinators who are listening to us today. One of the findings I really like is about ambivalent emotions. And I think people tend to oversimplify that. In psychology, we never think of cognition, emotions and behavior as being separate. Mills: Right. In the show you'll learn about the physiological origins of procrastination - the inner brake pedal and gas pedal - and what to do to escape the two . Sirois: It has a huge impact on it and I think this is a thing a lot of people don't think about when they think about procrastination. Go through the list of false beliefs we listed and journal your common cognitive distortions. This episode was produced by Mary Dooe. So it's not like there's an emergency, it's not like somebody pulled you off of what you were doing. So there's this thing called perfectionistic concerns, which is of a self-critical type of perfectionism where the person has really high standards for themselves and is really driven to try and please other people. Procrastination is the act of avoiding something through delay or postponement. Its the idea that you can use your emotions as fuel for your goals, that you dont need to reduce your negative emotions. Speaking of Psychology is an audio podcast series highlighting some of the latest, most important, and relevant psychological research being conducted today. . How can we create better habits to avoid procrastinating? Mills: So a moment ago you mentioned the couch and the screen, being able to get away from those things, and I'm wondering whether does the ubiquity of social media and electronic devices have an impact on procrastination or have procrastinators always been able to find excuses to put things off? A conversation with former psychologist Alice Boyes about why we keep postponing our work. But what we actually know about people who are healthy, happy, and productive is that they dont go around spending a lot of time trying to reduce their emotions. Another will power builder is to choose a difficult book, decide to read it in let us say 60 days, and then divide the book up into 60 parts to read every day. The second episode of the Psychiatry and Psychotherapy podcast deals with cognitive distortions. Welcome to Speaking of Psychology, the flagship podcast of the American Psychological Association that examines the links between psychological science and everyday life. Its a really false image. And you see this a lot. Sirois: Great question. He felt that someday he would be caught and everyone would know that he had faked competence. Mills: Well, somewhat related to my last question, are there cultural differences among people who procrastinate? And there is some research, there's some procrastination researchers down in Peru, and we do these conferences every couple of years, just sort international conference on procrastination and we hear about the different research that's going on different in parts of the world on the topic of procrastination. Yeah. For good! The psychology of procrastination is complex, and there are several factors that contribute to this behaviour. It can become tired, temporarily, after extensive use. CURT NICKISCH: Thats interesting. And coming at it from this mood regulation or emotion regulation perspective then, what that suggests is that we need to find ways to manage those emotions first and foremost. Produced by the American Psychological Association, these podcasts will help listeners apply the science of psychology to their everyday lives. This podcast is for those who have creativity bursting within but work hard on other people's dreams they fail to pursue their own. Its really been great to have you on the show to talk about it. Hidden Brain helps curious people understand the world-- and themselves. I think that would kind of level the playing field for many people as well in terms of whether they were able to be productive or whether they found themselves falling into a trap of procrastination. And that's enough to keep us from actually getting started on the task. There really is so much that goes on with it psychologically. So they could come in, engage in this program over a few weeks, it would help reduce their procrastination. Because what procrastination does is it gives you immediate relief. So its also using that strength. I'm having difficulty, but you know what, it's okay. Can lead to thoughts such as "I might as well not even try.". Yes, procrastination. CURT NICKISCH: Well, Alice youve given people a lot of tools to deal with something that can really be frustrating. So I think it can be quite mixed. Its probably going to be really expensive. Just do it and you'll feel a lot better than you think you will. Because putting off those kinds of things tends to cause big problems, like if your air conditioner breaks in the middle of summer or whatever it is, its useful to have a generic system that you can use for approaching tasks that you dont do frequently, tasks that feel out of your wheelhouse, novel tasks. Adding your daily task unlocks deep insights about your psychology. Avoidance brings immediate relief from the distress associated with the task. For further reading on procrastination, check out some of Timothy Pychyls research. Such as, This is stupid, I dont even care about it.. What are the sort of consequences that they experience? Gamers Gene's Procrastination Podcast is your source for everything Video Games info/news. So even though I dont like providing tech help, I like the idea that I will compensate for her weaknesses and she will compensate for mine, and that well support each other through that. ALICE BOYES: Yeah, so people will have heard a lot about habits in recent years. And any strategy that you can use, whether it targets behavior or emotions or thoughts is probably going to work no matter what you see the primary root of it as being, because those things are so interlinked. And again, its coming back to this idea that it really isnt about stopping procrastination. Ways to overcome procrastination include: 10. ALICE BOYES: Yeah. So when an emotion comes up, like when someones feeling doubt or someones feeling embarrassment, thats what people who function well do. This is simply not true. Avoid over-planning as a form of procrastination. Hes happily married, a father of two, involved in his church, in a band, and is a practicing psychiatrist. Doer is the science -based guide to overcoming procrastination. Sometimes its a much deeper seated thing than that. You can find her article, How to Stop Procrastinating in the May/June, 2022 issue of Harvard Business Review and at hbr.org. Boredom / Low Interest - Interest can be considered an emotion with motivational properties related to approach. Our sound editor is Chris Condayan. ALICE BOYES: It can be both. Recognizing this link led to the revelation that fighting procrastination might help him stop feeling like he didnt deserve to be in his position. So thats obviously a huge problem, right? Planning more than only the first step can be its own form of procrastination. For example, if theres a task associated with your job that you dont want to do, you can still link it with something you believe in. What tasks are they most likely to avoid? It doesn't have to be objectively an unpleasant task, but it's what our interaction with that task, the emotions that arise from that interaction and how it makes us feel and if it's something unpleasant and we can't quite work through those feelings, procrastination becomes a way to solve that, at least in the short run. And this is whatas you mentioned, emotions are at the core of procrastination. CURT NICKISCH: You mentioned earlier that when people do the tasks they know, those are often the easiest to do, and they put off the harder ones. What are you working on now? According to some psychologists, the answer is not that people are lazy or have poor time management skills. And thats kind of useful for everybody, because we all tend to think of one way we could approach something and start down that track. I naturally worry about things that could go wrong. And in the workplace as well. CURT NICKISCH: But thats never addressing the emotion that goes with it. Subscribe. We have these sort of different subcategories or dimensions of perfectionism. I'm so glad that we did not put off this discussion. For a lot of tasks, Ill just do one or two of them. Impostor Syndrome involves feeling like you're not the person people think you areas if youre deceiving everyone. Emotions pretty much always come with thoughts and vice versa. We are both aware that we feel frustrated with ourselves when we know weve been procrastinating. Try to place your willpower-hungry tasks at the beginning of the day. Maybe with the exception of form filling and really basic things, but most things that we procrastinate we can approach through the perspective of our strengths. Identify the emotions behind tasks you felt you didnt excel in, or that didnt turn out the way you wanted them to when you did complete them. So I'm curious to know whether the rates of procrastination over the last couple decades are increasing over time as well. So there are some sort of useful forms of it but obviously it can also tie people in knots and lead to lots of self-criticism. She also wrote the HBR article, How to Stop Procrastinating. And really the name of the game is people changing themselves. Why is procrastination so tied up with guilt and shame, even though it's something nearly everyone does? CURT NICKISCH: Yeah. And then you've got this other flavor of perfectionism, which is this perfectionist strivers, which is more someone who's driven by their own internal standards, but these standards are still quite high. Theres hope for all of us, even if its plagued us for a long time. Mills led APAs foray into social media and envisioned and launched APAs award-winning podcast series Speaking of Psychologyin 2013. I often recommend this to psychiatry residents and NPs I train, challenging them to read 3 books in 60 days using this method. You might have a big work project that's due, you feel stressed about it and suddenly you realize you can't possibly get started until you clean your desk. Like if you feel guilt. Yeah, I'm doing a few different things. But I dont always do those six or seven steps. Mills is senior director of strategic external communications and public affairs for the American Psychological Association, where she has worked since 2007. A common but counter-intuitive driver of procrastination is fear of failure. We protect the self temporarily by avoiding the task that threatens it. Sirois: The quick answer is you can't. CURT NICKISCH: Lets say its not an organizational culture issue or a team culture issue, but you do notice that theres procrastination as an issue within your team, among team members. The adrenaline spike and stress of the situation make us think we are better off waiting, but in reality, its unlikely that our delay will make the final product any better.Ill feel more like it later.We deceive ourselves into thinking that we'll feel like completing the task later. So we think about having systems for tasks we do all the time, but we often dont think about having a system for novel tasks. And so we know it's associated with higher rates of depression and anxiety, definitely higher rates of stress, that's one thing I found consistently, not just with students that I've done research with, but also adults out in the community. You said, I'm going to do that. "Everyone procrastinates, but not everyone is a procrastinator," quoth Dr. Joe Ferrari, a charming, hilarious expert on the subject. Register for the early bird rate. Then maybe a quick walk to clear your head. And if you like what you heard, please leave us a review. So that's one project that I'll be working on and looking at sort of existing research out there to see if the mean levels of procrastination, chronic procrastination that is, have gone up, especially in student samples over the last couple of decades. So the classic example is the student who the only time they ever clean their dorm room is when they should be studying for exams. Guilt is a useful emotion because it causes us to want to repair things. If we want to address any type of problem, we've got to know what the core cause is. It also causes us to keep up a steady stream of I should be in our subconscious minds. But what about that culture of procrastination at a place or in a team? So it's actually quite high in college and university samples. But after some research into why people procrastinate, he found a few tricks and tips to help him on his journey to live a more balanced life. Thats episode 295. CURT NICKISCH: So lets start down the line here and go through three different areas where we can really make a difference when it comes to changing how we work. So there's short-term health impacts, but there's also some more serious long-term health impacts as well. Sirois is the author of Procrastination: What It Is, Why Its a Problem, and What You Can Do About It, published by APA Books in July 2022. How do you define procrastination in your research? So are we all in some sense a product of our culture when it comes to procrastination? We think about the immediate damage it can cause. APA 2023 registration is now open! But there's tolerance for it too. So people who are prone to procrastination do tend to use more social media, tend to be engaged with their digital distractions. ALICE BOYES: Yeah. It is often based on the lie that we should be able to complete something without assistance. CURT NICKISCH: Thats Alice Boyes, a trained clinical psychologist and the author of the book Stress Free Productivity. And this is something that I've found in my own research too, that students who chronically procrastinate tend to report more of these sort of stress-related mild health complaints, but they also can impact engaging in health behaviors. So you've chosen to delay and there's no really good reason to. But there are also a lot of other ways to use habits. Sirois: Yeah, it's a great question, and indeed, a lot of us can procrastinate just occasionally, which we would call sort of more of a situationally based procrastination. So a lot of things that we do where its of a lot of value, doing something for the first time, doing something that youve never done before, that feels really foreign to you, thats a huge skill building thing. So my strategy and my system is kind of tailored to that. And so because of that, they might sort of not be able to savor their successes when they actually reach those standards. You build new relationships, for example, by working with a new collaborator versus with someone youve already worked with 20 times before. Part of it is Ill think about three ways I could approach the task at the outset. Not just it's harmful for our mental health, it's also harmful for our physical health. And push comes to shove when we actually do it, it's like, Wait a second. Our guest today offers three strategic paths to beat procrastination in a comprehensive way. You're going to hand in things late or you're not going to do your best work. And so when we look at procrastination then in terms of emotion regulation, what one way to think about is that we're not avoiding the task per se, what we're avoiding is the negative emotions associated with that task. A lot of studies haven't found any difference and sincesome more recent evidence does suggest that men tend to procrastinate a little bit more than women. Look at the thoughts that come with that emotion. I just think of one to mitigate against each and that keeps it contained and it satisfies my anxiety. To even begin to change, we have to become aware of the problem, then accept it. She explains the different causes of procrastination and shares three approaches to beat it: through habits, emotions, and thought patterns. And things like with healthcare, that would be an example. But the minutes you take action and start to encounter problems, which we all do, right, it's never a straight direct path from point A to point B when we're trying to reach our goals, there's ups and downs along the way, but people who have these sort of self-critical perfectionism, the minute they hit one of those bumps in the road, so to speak, on the path to their goal, they give up. Fuschia Sirois, PhD, of Durham University, talks about why procrastination is an emotion regulation problem, not one of laziness or poor time management skills; how it can harm our mental and physical health; why it's so tied up with guilt and shame; and how self-compassion can help us overcome it. There was actually a really interesting study that I just read in the last few days that said that doing mindfulness meditation reduces peoples feelings of guilt, but it also causes them to be less willing to do reparative behaviors. That frustration is a sign we are trying to change, but it isnt helpful in the actual change. And there might be some generational influences there too. And really that sort of perspective is more of looking at the symptoms of procrastination rather than the causes. But we all know that a lot of these things with uncertain outcomes are the things that have the higher potential for reward. And I think it has to do with deadlines and how flexible those are. This is good for willpower training. Its something that is potentially really harmful. In Canada or U.S., it would've been That's not an issue.. Adam Grant posted this interesting thing on Instagram a few weeks ago where he said, I wouldve started on Instagram a long, long time ago if I had realized I could just repost my words, if I could just post pictures of my words rather than having to post pictures and videos that we more associate with Instagram. And obviously he does these, theyre essentially like tweets, theyre just these little quotes. Our audio product manager is Ian Fox. Especially if it was something that you either felt really intimidated by or you had put off for a long time and finally got around to doing it. I'm going to write that report by Friday. And that's the other thing too, it's usually a task that held some importance. Is the task actually stupid, or is it something you should do, youre just afraid to do it, so youre demeaning it in case you fail? For Dr. Brammer, Imposter Syndrome came from his ability to excel in school, despite consistently cramming for assignments and tests. ALICE BOYES: I dont think you need to separate emotions from tasks. And how to stop procrastinating. I'm really thrilled to be here. ALICE BOYES: Yeah, often the emotional intolerance isnt really about just a task being boring or unpleasant. Or you may be sitting up reading that novel or you may be knitting that sweater. So you take that task that's really stressing you out, you've got that report you've got to write, you're worried about what your manager's going to think because maybe a promotion rides on it, or you're worried if you're going to be doing it correctly, or if you're going to do it as perfectly as what you want, and you take that task, you put it aside and you get busy with other things and you've now have this immediate sense of relief. The variable task or system-based factors are: This can become paralyzing, especially when we are unwilling to ask for help. And the problem with that is it's immediately reinforcing. Self-forgiveness reduces the negative emotions we associate with a task, thus reducing future avoidance and offering ourselves an encouraging approach instead. "There hasn't been any convincing scientific evidence to say procrastination is the result of poor time management. And we all have personal examples something felt really yucky at the time, but it ended up being really, really fruitful. It's just not that thing that they should be doing right now that's looming and important and will have negative consequences if they don't get it done. Menu. The way its helpful for me is that because Im a worrier or I get wrapped up thinking of all the possible things that could go wrong, and it just helps me streamline that so that I think of just the three major things. CURT NICKISCH: That was one of the things that I really learned from reading what you wrote, is just how much emotion is wrapped up in procrastination. Alice, thanks for being here. How does this play out interpersonally? Alice Boyes is a former clinical psychologist and the author of the book Stress Free Productivity. So it is really complicated, but theres always times where people need to get on to doing something. So whats a good way to overcome that, to accept that this friction-filled work, as you put it, is good for you and may help you? So, How does doing this task reflect my values? So for example, my spouse is always asking for tech help, Could you help me with this on the computer? And I hate providing tech help, but I obviously have the value of being a supportive spouse. For more than 20 years, she has researched the causes and consequences of procrastination as well as how emotions play a role in explaining why people procrastinate. They take a negative emotion and they use it as fuel for their goals. Mills: So last question. Eve. We all want to pick up little tips and tricks from people about their morning routines or whatever it is. It will also help to be able to clarify your goalsdaily, weekly, monthly. Far more than a productivity hack. You dont have to be a member of Procrastinators Anonymous to appreciate how paralyzing procrastination can be. My guest today is Dr. Fuschia Sirois, a professor of psychology at Durham University in the United Kingdom, and author of the book Procrastination: What It Is, Why It's a Problem and What You Can Do About It, published in July by APA Books. And then we do a bit of a calculation to get an idea of how many minutes they were procrastinating. You'll gain practical knowledge you can put into action right away. So theres a great HBR article about how diverse teams tend to do better work, but they also tend to feel like they have more conflict. Can you feel a good emotion from that? And we know that self-compassion can be a very powerful tool for regulating negative emotions, and that's another approach too, especially if we're really struggling and just sayit's not giving yourself a free pass. Do you know what percentage of people are chronic procrastinators to the point where it's really affecting their health? So what people want to do is look at the forms of procrastination with the most potential for major harm in their lives, that are causing them the most bother, and be really confident that theyve got strategies for dealing with those. And so thats useful. Sometimes we need more encouragement to complete a task we are dreading. Students who chronically procrastinate tend to have poorer performance in terms of their grades. I think one of the big misconceptions in all of this is that people think a lot about reducing emotions as a way of combating procrastination. And I guess here we're talking about chronic procrastination as opposed to procrastinating from time to time. We wont discover our true potential if we dont give ourselves ample time.I have plenty of time, I'll do it later.We are undervaluing the future self when we think this way. Thanks for listening to the HBR IdeaCast. A couple of names popped up, Margaret Atwood, J.K. Rowling for example, who are also highly productive. For example, someone with ADHD is more likely to procrastinate. They tend to also have more insecure job status, in other words, they're jumping from job to job and they never really advance much, and they actually make less money than people who don't chronically procrastinate. Its about identifying the forms of procrastination that cause problems for you, like where youve got a sense of a possible problem in your mind, and you just keep putting off thinking about it, putting off dealing with it. Procrastination is a phenomenon that has plagued individuals since the dawn of time. You can extrapolate out a little bit. CURT NICKISCH: You also argue for people to create better systems to help them start new tasks. 135 episodes Dr. Timothy A. Pychyl, associate professor of psychology and director of the Procrastination Research Group (Carleton University, Ottawa, Canada), provides a series of short talks, interviews and question/answer podcasts that explain why we procrastinate and what we can do about it. But I think this was the first time I really understood how identifying emotions could lead to something in the article you call psychological flexibility. CURT NICKISCH: Is it more cognitive or emotional? They called it a procrastination ambulance, which was I think their way of translating saying it was like a clinic for procrastination at a university, for students who were really troubled by their procrastination. I'm going to start with a quote that a colleague and friend of mine who got me into this area of research, Tim Pychyl at Carleton University in Canada, one that he often uses to make the distinction between procrastination and delay. Well, I want to thank you for joining me today, Dr. Sirois. People will say its an emotional thing and its caused by people being intolerant of emotions. And so we label our downtime as procrastination. And there's been some research on that. Sirois: That is a really good question. If you want to pursue therapy for your procrastination, cognitive behavioral therapy can help. And thats something that people with psychological flexibility are able to do. We think well drink caffeine, get a mental boost, or find the perfect time to do the task, but it never comes.I did pretty well, considering I waited until the last minute.This is a self-protective belief. The research psychologist, author and DePaul University professor sits down for a truly delightful exploration of why we procrastinate, how prevalent it is, when it becomes harmful, some myths about procrastination, why it's similar to gambling, how .
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